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I really do know a few people who met and fell in love online. It was several years back and they are still going strong, as well as the key thing that helped is that they got real and kept it real. I understand from my very own short foray into online dating that it's all too simple to produce high expectations and build up that sandcastle in the heavens, but this is real life. It's better to feel excited but I realise I was being a bit overzealous in believing that I was instantly going to meet The Perfect Man . To be honest, it requires patience, time, constant and consistent exercising of your judgement and instincts, and keeping your foot in reality. Just like I say that you just should not put all your expectations and desire for well-being on one man, or a guy that does not exist yet, you certainly shouldn't do this for a man online. Slow down and see online dating as another path to meet men instead of the great white hope since you're 'sick of guys in pubs' or 'do not like socialising', because invariably you'll probably meet more jackasses than you will respectable guys and you'll become disheartened or begin to find yourself engaging with unsuitable men because you figure it's all you will discover.

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