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I read a study that says women are more picky than men. They fall for the bad boys and believe they are able to change them for the better. In the end, they get their hearts broken because they didn't alter. Again, studies has proven that dating bad boy's never ever work out. By the time they get older and wiser and go after the nice guy that they blew off. They nice guys end up blow them off. Or is taken. So in the end. To me, both genders need to unwind and quit playing the games and act like mature adults if they're any more left out there
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I'm never married no kids, swim a mile every single day and wear the same size I did 20 years ago. Most guys 10 year younger than me don't know what the words "dental hygienist" mean. It's a generalization to say that women have been cooking and doing laundry for so long they no longer are interested in sex. What exactly does one have to do with the other? Perhaps you need to get a maid to do your cleaning and laundry for you and you also might find a woman who is interested in going out to dinner, cycling and having fun!
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