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I read a study that says women are more picky than guys. They fall for the bad boys and believe they can alter them for the better. In the end, they get their hearts broken because they did not shift. Again, studies has shown that dating bad boy's never ever work out. By the time they get older and wiser and go following the nice guy that they blew off. They nice guys wind up blow them away. Or is taken. So in the end. To me, both genders need to unwind and quit playing the games and act like mature adults if they're any more left out there
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I am never married no children, swim a mile daily and wear the same size I did 20 years ago. Most men 10 year younger than me don't be aware of what the words "dental hygienist" mean. It's a generalization to say that women have been cooking and doing laundry for so long they no longer are interested in sex. What does one have to do with the other? Perhaps you need to get a maid to do your cleaning and laundry for you and you might locate a woman who's interested in going out to dinner, cycling and having fun!
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