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Online dating can be the equivalent of visiting a singles bar... for idle folks... Yes, I know that lots of people meet online and sometimes it works out nicely, but it's often inelegant, undignified, and hazardous." Wait, we are supposed to get serious about meeting compatible guys without even attempting to link with a suitable guy by means of a newsgroup where single individuals actively seeking relationships can definitely go to locate dates with similar interests and values? Additionally, if she thinks it's sluggish to dedicate an hour (or more) every evening to evaluation profiles, crafting witty but alluring messages to that adorable barista/novelist who keeps popping up in your Recommended Matches," sorting through messages that range between offensive and graphical to mildly appealing, corresponding with new prospects, and organizing first dates... well, clearly she's never tried online dating. (Try it, Susan! I met some amazing guys on OKCupid.)
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Until you find a spouse, I'd advise you invest your effort and energy at least 75 percent in searching for a partner and 25 percent in professional development." Um, is this even possible? Assuming these women are still working 40 hours per week to support themselves, she's urging 120 hours a week be given to the husband hunt. Since online dating is off the table, you should spend an average of 17 hours a day putting her hints for man-hunting into practice. That means, per Patton, you must be frequenting your local house of worship for like minded worshippers, harassing friends to set you up with single acquaintances, and e-mailing old school classmates to see whether they're successful and marriage-worthy yet. Don't stress, this leaves you 8 hours of free time for the week. I recommend you spend them sleeping, but you might also decide to spend them pursuing hobbies, such as pickling and needlework, that may make you more desired as a wife.
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