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Additionally an observation I've made now that I Have scrolled down and read a lot of the opinions. I see a reoccurring topic. Most of the opinions by guys seem to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most vocal man remarking about how much worse they believe online dating is for men vs women will still acknowledge that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not seem critical or conclusive in anyway but it is a common theme I see every time sex is discussed from the net to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with men. Backpage Escorts Near Me Skeena British Columbia. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits up talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being totally blown off by the opposite sex and the single female answers are to either attack them or simply blow off what his issues are and talk over him with their own perceived problem that in their mind is worse............................. Here's the matter tho. While getting a lot of e-mails from guys you do not find appealing could most certainly be annoying (tho, I'm not sure what's so hard about using filters or simply deleting the offending messages) you can't possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively believe that's on the same equal plain of sucking as being dismissed like you are imperceptible. The belief that those 2 problems are equal is absolutely laughable and makes it clear the folks who do believe they are have no objective view of reality outside of their particular selfish head and thoughts.................................. I mean I'm glad you have had it so good in your life that you literally can not understand what it is like to feel as if you're imperceptible but scroll down and read what us guys are telling you point blank over and over again and give that little light bulb over your head an opportunity to twist itself in. You might learn something. Apart from that if you're a female and every post by a man here just angers you and makes you would like to phone the guy a pathetic loser or "creep" then I suggest to you that you might be a sociopath.........................attempting to get a path of intervals between each paragraph so this site doesn't reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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