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I read a study that says women are somewhat more picky than men. They fall for the bad boys and believe they can alter them for the better. Ultimately, they get their hearts broken because they didn't change. Again, studies has demonstrated that dating bad boy's never ever work out. By the time they get older and wiser and go after the nice guy that they blew off. They nice guys end up blow them away. Or is taken. So in the end. To me, both sexes need to unwind and quit playing the games and act like mature adults if they're any more left out there
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I am never married no children, swim a mile daily and wear the same size I did 20 years ago. Most guys 10 year younger than me don't know what the words "dental hygienist" mean. It's a generalization to say that women have been cooking and doing laundry for so long they no longer are interested in sex. What does one have to do with the other? Maybe you should get a maid to do your cleaning and laundry for you and also you might find a lady who is interested in going out to dinner, cycling and having fun!
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