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I completed setting up my profile, used a picture of my buddy for the profile pic with her permission, and said I was interested in Long term dating/short term dating and was great to really go. I thought I'd check on it in about 24 hours. But before I might even close the tab another message was received. It was another guy who looked fine asking how I was doing and I messaged him back staying as unbiased and as uninterested as possible without being mean. I was going to leave again, but I was kind of interested now, so I waited another minute, and sure enough, a third message popped up (also I feel it is a great point to say that my friend would be the first to say she's a pretty average looking girl). I messaged him back, but before I could send, I'd gotten a response from the very first man, so I had to do that, then a reply from the next man. So fine, people are interested in going out with me. Afterward I got another message that started with a line that while not wholly vulgar, kind of came off a little odd. I ignored it and went back to send the message to individual three now. Before I really could send it, I got a followup message from Mr.4 which was needlessly sexual in nature. I continued to dismiss him and concluded. Then I started to have some small-talk with some men (recall this is like minute 20 of having the profile upward) and all of the conversations kind of get odd. Among the guys becomes super aggressive saying he is competitive and he'll treat me right, the other is asking for my phone number telling me he's lying in bed and the conversation (without me steering it) is turning increasingly sexual in nature though I tell him I am not comfortable by it. Afterward I got the NoStringsAtttached messages, with numerous guys sending me messages asking me to see them cam, or meeting up with them within the hour, or speak with them on the telephone or cyber. I'd say no and they normally did not take it too well.
At first I thought it was fun, I thought it was bizarre but maybe I would mess with them or something and freak them out and tell them I was a guy or something, but as an increasing number of messages came (either responses or new ones I 'd about 10 different guys message me within 2 hours) the nature of them continued to get more and more irritating. Men were full-on spamming my inbox with multiple messages before I could reply to even one asking why I was not responding and what was wrong. Guys would become hostile when I told them I was not interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started regular and pleasant fast turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature. Seemingly fine men in rather esteemed professions asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I did not need to.
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