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Should you've struggled with obesity through the majority of your teen years, then perhaps surgical intervention is wise for you.. In the event you are going to go the path of cosmetic surgery, do it early enough to feel comfortable in your new body before going away to school." Suggesting overweight, but not always unhealthy, teenagers to get weight-loss surgery to slim down for the faculty dating market? That is horrible advice both emotionally and medically. Doctors typically recommend that weight-loss surgery for teenagers should be considered only when serious obesity-related health complications have appeared, not for cosmetic reasons. And even if a teenager is a good candidate, the process is uncertain and demands the patient's full commitment to maintaining an extremely restricted diet and proper lifestyle following the operation. Weight-loss surgery not something to urge on an heavy teen just so that she can expand her possible dating options.
Online dating can be the equivalent of going to a singles bar... for lazy people... Yes, I am aware that many people meet online and sometimes it works out nicely, but it is frequently inelegant, undignified, and dangerous." Wait, we're designed to get serious about meeting compatible men without even trying to link with an appropriate guy by means of a newsgroup where single individuals actively looking for relationships can definitely go to seek out dates with similar interests and values? Also, if she believes it is sluggish to dedicate an hour (or more) every evening to rating profiles, crafting witty but alluring messages to that adorable barista/novelist who keeps popping up in your Recommended Matches," sorting through messages which range from offensive and graphic to moderately appealing, corresponding with new prospects, and organizing first dates... well, clearly she's never tried online dating. (Try it, Susan! I met some amazing guys on OKCupid.)
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Until you find a spouse, I'd advise you invest your effort and energy at least 75 percent in searching for a partner and 25 percent in professional development." Um, is this even possible? Assuming these women are still working 40 hours per week to support themselves, she is recommending 120 hours a week be given to the husband hunt. Since online dating is off the table, you have to spend an average of 17 hours a day getting her suggestions for guy-hunting into practice. That means, per Patton, you must be frequenting your local house of worship for like-minded worshippers, harassing friends to set you up with single acquaintances, and emailing old school classmates to see if they are successful and union-worthy yet. Don't stress, this leaves you 8 hours of free time for the week. I would suggest you spend them sleeping, but you might also decide to spend them pursuing hobbies, for example pickling and needlework, that may make you more desired as a wife.
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