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As far as appealing women not reacting to messages - the anonymity of the keyboard and display have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would've simply become the man in the corner of the bar staring, the guy randomly bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys simply sitting at home, in their cellar, peeling wings off flies or whatever. But the internet and online dating have bridged "desire" and "activity" so that with virtually zero effort, lots of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can drop their garbage everywhere without the outcomes they had face attempting to do it in person. So I do believe that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they must sift through, plus it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.
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