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I can not say it any clearer than this: Do not post any selfies of yourself looking into your own bathroom mirror, period. Backpage Escorts near Eholt. Seeing a guy standing next to an open toilet, or just a toilet paper dispenser, is an instant turn off. Take a selfie the way everyone else in the world does, by using a selfie stick and pretending as though you are doing something fun (like fishing or watching football). Or, if you don't have a selfie stick, shoot your profile photo the old fashioned way by exploiting the reverse camera view on your smart phone and then snapping a selfie in your automobile. Worst comes to worst, have a buddy take an action photo of you standing alone with a glass of wine pretending to laugh at someone just out of view. If you don't have a single friend who can shoot your photograph, or you do not possess a smartphone, then you probably shouldn't be dating in the first place.

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Last week I discussed my six pet peeves about middle-aged men's online dating profiles , and I assured everyone that this week I Had focus on middle-aged women's online dating profiles. Since I am much more familiar with men's profiles, I recruited some of my single male friends (and the Twittersphere) to help me with this specific post. This list is my best effort at summarizing the outcomes of my informal survey, with some of my own observations predicated on a little research I ran myself. Disclaimer: if you are a woman between the ages of 45 and 60, living in the Chicagoland area, and I popped up on your "Viewed Me" list, I'm sorry, really. Anyway, here goes:

Waaaay too Many Pet Pictures. This was a huge criticism among the guys I interviewed. They are taking a look at your profile to find out more about you, not your pets. So delete the pet photographs, particularly the ones without you in them. Oh and while we're on the topic of pet photos, I have a personal request of all you single, middle aged women out there on dating websites: please, please, please delete any and all photographs of your cats. This is so important. I can not stress it enough. Single, middle aged women already need to deal with much too many negative stereotypes, along with the cat photos (you cuddling with your cats, you kissing your cats, multiple cats on your bed) only function to bolster them. I once wrote a blog post about how dating sometimes made me feel undesirable , and I got hundreds of opinions from single middle-aged men throughout all of North America notifying me that I must live in a dark apartment with 100 or so cats, so really, please delete them.

No. More. Instagram. Pictures. I really like Instagram photographs because several of the filters make my eyes seem strikingly blue (or green, or lavender), and some even shave about ten years off my face. But do I post these photographs on my online dating profile? No I do not. Why? Because my eyes aren't really that blue (or green or lavender), and I am about 10 years older than my Instagram pictures would have you believe. This was the number one criticism among the guys I interviewed - artistically filtered (i.e., deceptive) photos. Truth in advertising ladies, truth in marketing.

Athletic and Toned Means, well, Athletic and Toned. I hate the body descriptors as much as you do (well, except for you size 0 women out there, you almost certainly adore them), but I do think it is significant that we at least strive for honesty. The word on the street is the fact that way too many women out there in the internet dating world are utilizing the "fit and toned" descriptor in reference to their "about average" bodies (this criticism applies to men also, of course). The thing is, there really is not anything wrong with having an about average (or curvy) body thus let's take the pressure off ourselves and heed the guidance of Amy Schuler, and understand once and for all that a little meat on our bones isn't going to kill us, and it isn't going to drive away the good guys either (correct, good guys?).

Tone Down the Boudoir Shots. You say you desire a quality man who honors you as a human being and is interested in having a serious relationship with you, then you post pictures of yourself next to your bed (or in your bed, or in your bed, or in someone else's bed). And if you aren't posting photos of yourself next to your bed, (or on your bed, or in your bed), you're posting pictures with way too much cleavage. Now, that's completely fine - I have no issue at all with this, and I'm certain many guys don't have a problem either - but what some guys do have a problem with is when women post said super-hot glamour pictures and then complain to their friends, or make statements on their profiles about how all guys are dogs and only want them for sex. And while we're on the subject of complaint-filled profiles...

Discontinue Using Your Profile to Whine about Men. Several men noted how many women's online dating profiles are comprised primarily of grievances about guys - either their profiles, or their behaviour in general. I agree with the men on this one. There is no point in using your profile narrative as a soapbox for your negative understanding of all single, middle-aged men (for heaven's sakes make use of a blog for that). So while I am certain there are guys (and women) out there who are logged on and behaving badly, I really believe that women must take responsibility for their own choices. Backpage Escorts closest to Eholt British Columbia Canada. We can maintain our positive expectations while at the exact same time heeding our inner voice that warns us when something is not quite appropriate. Far too often some women are guided not by common sense, but by wishful thinking as well as a desire to be nice and not seem ill-mannered, so we ignore the large, red flashing warning lights raging in our heads and proceed without caution. I once met a girl who expressed great sadness that she just couldn't trust the men she met online. She then continued to tell me a story about one of these men who spent days (yes, days) wooing her via e-mail. He told her stories of his limitless prosperity and his links to powerful individuals all around the globe. She slept with him on the 2nd date (after he assured to whisk her off to a private island that next weekend). But that is not all. She also gave him all of her identifying information when he told her that she needed to be checked by "his people." And guess what? Yep! Her identity was stolen. Complaining about how she could only no longer trust men she met online was a bit like whining about how she could simply no longer trust Nigerian princes.