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If you've fought with obesity through the majority of your teen years, then perhaps surgical intervention is a great idea for you.. If you're going to go the course of cosmetic surgery, do it early enough to feel comfortable in your new body before going away to school." Suggesting overweight, but not always unhealthy, adolescents to get weight-loss surgery to slim down for the college dating marketplace? That is horrible advice both psychologically and medically. Doctors usually recommend that weight-loss surgery for teens should be considered only when serious obesity-related health complications have appeared, not for decorative reasons. And even if a teenager is an excellent candidate, the process is risky and requires the patient's total commitment to keeping a very restricted diet and proper lifestyle following the operation. Weight-loss surgery not something to urge on an heavy adolescent merely so that she is able to expand her potential dating alternatives.
Online dating can be the equivalent of visiting a singles bar... for lazy people... Yes, I understand that lots of people meet online and sometimes it works out well, but it is frequently inelegant, undignified, and dangerous." Wait, we are supposed to get seriously interested in meeting compatible men without even attempting to join with an appropriate guy by means of a forum where single individuals actively trying to find relationships can definitely go to locate dates with similar interests and values? Also, if she thinks it's sluggish to dedicate an hour (or more) every evening to evaluation profiles, crafting witty but alluring messages to that adorable barista/novelist who keeps popping up in your Recommended Matches," sorting through messages that range between offensive and graphical to mildly appealing, corresponding with new prospects, and arranging first dates... well, certainly she is never tried online dating. (Try it, Susan! I met some amazing guys on OKCupid.)
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Until you locate a spouse, I would advise you invest your effort and energy at least 75 percent in trying to find a partner and 25 percent in professional development." Um, is this even possible? Assuming these women are still working 40 hours a week to support themselves, she is recommending 120 hours a week be given to the husband hunt. Since online dating is off the table, you need to spend an average of 17 hours a day getting her suggestions for man-hunting into practice. That means, per Patton, you should be frequenting your local house of worship for like minded worshippers, harassing friends to set you up with single acquaintances, and emailing old college classmates to see whether they are successful and marriage-worthy yet. Do not worry, this leaves you 8 hours of free time for the week. I would recommend you spend them sleeping, but you might also decide to spend them pursuing hobbies, including pickling and needlework, that'll allow you to be more desirable as a wife.
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