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As an example, place images of yourself in a suit appearing 'corporate' and standing next to your new sports car and you will set off the spidey sense of every gold digger in sight. At exactly the same time as putting off young fun loving girls that think you look like a rich older douche who is attempting to 'buy' them. Set graphics that showcase your abs and muscles and you also put off girls that think you are a poser and girls that believe that you are just after sex. Place some of neutral, drilling non-threatening images of you standing next to your Xmas tree holding your pet dog and also you look like a 'dreary guy.' Put very zany ones where you share dangling upside down off something high or in fancy dress, and you seem like a addict. You will Scare off the meek sheltered girls and bring the S & M freaks that want you to butt fuck them while they scream 'no daddy it is too big' at the top of their lungs, prompting your neighbors to alarm the police.
As soon as they fire back, scan through their profile get a handle on their worth and character quirks and reflect them back to her in conversation. This is actually about the only thing that is EASIER on-line than in real life since you don't even have to ask leading question to outlaw the information; it's all already there. And that is because most women nowadays are narcissists prone to massively OVER-SHARING on social media (including dating site profiles).The blueprint for exactly what you should say and do to get her to participate you is usually right there in her profile preferences and bio.
Organize a date. On the date steer conversation away from the nuts and bolts 'what do you do what do I do' job interview dynamic and onto the grounds of primal fears, childhood memories and general observations about people around you. Sprinkle the conversation with subtle references and nods to each of the shit she already told the universe floats her boat in her long rambling self-indulgent profile. Steer the conversation the long way round until it's about sex one and sexual preferences one way or another. Then get her back to yours, fuck the shit from her and only call her back the following day if she's any good.
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Another experience I had comes to mind: I replied this one woman's personal ad in this community paper. On the second time she came over to my place, we began having sex. She was also seeing this one chap, who was going to her community events consistently, but did not begin having sex with him until much later. Eventually she asked me if I wanted to get serious with her. I politely refused, so she pursued things with the other guy. They soon married, and her wedding statement read, With XXX and me, it was love at first sight". while I see that someone is willing to shamelessly lie to others and themselves, not getting serious with her was the right thing to do. And why men are commonly so cynical about women.
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