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Additionally an observation I've made now that I've scrolled down and read most of the opinions. I see a reoccurring topic. Most of the comments by guys appear to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken guy remarking about how much worse they believe online dating is for men vs women will still recognize that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not seem significant or conclusive in anyhow but this is a common theme I see every time sex is discussed from the internet to the news to real life...that women have certainly ZERO ability to empathize with men. Backpage Escorts Near Me 40 Mile Flats British Columbia. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their spirits upward talking about how their self esteem was ruined by being completely blown off by the opposite sex and also the only female responses are to either attack them or simply blow off what his concerns are and talk over him with their very own perceived problem that in their mind is worse............................. Hereis the thing tho. While obtaining a bunch of e-mails from men you don't find attractive could most certainly be annoying (tho, I am not certain what is so difficult about using filters or simply deleting the offending messages) you can not possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively think that is on the same identical plain of sucking as being blown off like you are imperceptible. The belief that those 2 issues are equal is totally laughable and makes it clear the folks who do believe they're have no objective view of reality outside of their own self-centered head and thoughts.................................. I mean I am happy you've had it so good in your own life which you literally cannot get what it is like to feel like you are invisible but scroll down and read what us guys are telling you point blank over and over again and give that small light bulb over your head a chance to screw itself in. You might learn something. Apart from that if you're a female and every post by a man here just angers you and makes you want to call the guy a pathetic failure or "creep" then I suggest to you that you might be a sociopath.........................attempting to get a line of periods between each paragraph so this site does not reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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