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Scott, I think your pain. I'm 5'6" and put that in my profile. I have had much rejection on line, and my knee jerk reaction was they are discriminating against me cuz I'm short!". Well, I powered thru it, kept at it, been doing it for about 6 months (since the start of the year once I made the decision to make a really attempt to actually find a serious mate). I did (and continued to do lots of analysis on what it takes to succeed, as well as got some comments from friends (one avg man who is a musician like me said he looked on line for I think he said 7 years (!) before he found the woman he is now with and I beleive living with. He is not a bad loooking man too. I started to recognize we all have our pros and cons, and started to look it as a numbers game. I also recognized that different websites have distinct personalities. Match women (based on my experience) are the worst for discriminating against short guys. THere Ive seen numerous women who were 5'0 or 5'1 stating their minimal ht condition as 5 10 or 6'.My response rate was zero after e-mailing about 50.Other websites have different characters. POF is a lot more friendly, and low key. OK Cupid seems a little more like a hook up website, but also not bad for locating dates. I'm currently only on eharmony, and I reach out to all women which look like I really could stand them at first glance. Its a numbers game. Ive reached out to over 1000 women, and at first I got few answers. Then I began researching what works and what doesnt work on internet dating. I read lots of posts. I revealed my profile to my nephew and he helped me improve my photo selection. I also made sure to hightlite the key words that get the most answers. I didnt lie, I just did what everybody does in person on a first date, reveal myself in the best light. I also have few limitations on ethnicity. I happen to be equally attracted to African-American women, Asian women, white women, etc, so long as they cute. African American women have their very own long chances based on what I've read, so my chances are better that they'll respond. I'd have no trouble marrying a wonderful black woman if she was my soulmate and I fell in love with her. Fundamentally, I didnt give up and put ALOT of time into it, improving my odds, and now I'm getting responses, talking to women on the telephone, meeting my first girl met online this weekend, I 'm excited, she is EXTREMELY adorable and we share lots of similar interests. Cant wait. So, Scott, my advice to you is accept what you CAn't alter, dont be bitter, do what you are able to in order to maximize your chances, work on yourself to be the finest you can be, and eventually you'll locate love. I believe that's accurate.
Interesting, this thread is still drawing opinions 1 1/2 years after. So, it's been 1 1/2 years since some folks on here told me oh, height doesn't matter; oh, it's what is inside, oh, it will occur when you least expect it, blah blah blah." Imagine what? NOTHING since I first commented about height in late summer of 2012. Nothing. No dates, no relationships; I 'ven't been asked out. I 'ven't been given any signal by any girl that it's OK to approach, start up conversation, or ask for a date. Nothing. Nothing at all. That is the dating world now. A big nothing. I have forfeited; I stand conquered and broken by a game I can't win. I trust everyone else has had better luck than I. There is nothing more I can do. Everything comes down to height, looks, power, notoriety, stuff like that. Women do not give a damn what is in a man's character," because there is no way for them to understand that about guys they refuse to speak to, and refuse to give permission to be approached. So, that's where it's been left. Really unfortunate; I 'd hoped I might have made someone happy. But that's not going to occur.
I've been learning a good deal about myself over recent years. One thing that stands out universally in bringing a partner or even just an enjoyable date night is that we radiate what we think about ourselves in the way we interact. Some of your rejection experiences may be coming from your own view of yourself in comparison to other guys. The men who have put comments with views about their very own stature not being an issue at all in their successful dating enterprises also come across as much more assured. You may wish to regard the possibility that you simply desire to a adjust your perspective and value of yourself first before trying to pull someone because dating is exactly that: the occurrence of bringing someone. Women will definitely uncover whatever you first find standout and participating and powerful about yourself just as exciting to explore; but it may be that you must take the time first to discover your own worth and prominence.
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