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In case you've struggled with obesity through most of your teen years, then perhaps surgical intervention is a great idea for you.. In the event that you're going to go the course of cosmetic surgery, do it early enough to feel comfortable in your new body before going away to school." Advising overweight, but not always unhealthy, teenagers to get weight-loss surgery to slim down for the school dating market? That's terrible advice both emotionally and medically. Doctors usually recommend that weight-loss surgery for teens should be considered only when serious obesity-related health complications have arisen, not for decorative reasons. And even if a teen is a great candidate, the process is risky and demands the patient's total commitment to maintaining an extremely limited diet and appropriate lifestyle following the operation. Weight-loss surgery not something to urge on an overweight adolescent merely so that she is able to expand her possible dating alternatives.
Online dating can be the equivalent of visiting a singles bar... for lazy folks... Yes, I am aware that lots of people meet online and sometimes it works out well, but it is often inelegant, undignified, and hazardous." Wait, we're designed to get seriously interested in meeting compatible men without even trying to link with an appropriate guy through a newsgroup where single individuals actively seeking relationships can definitely go to seek out dates with similar interests and values? Also, if she believes it's lazy to dedicate an hour (or more) every evening to rating profiles, crafting witty but alluring messages to that cute barista/novelist who keeps popping up in your Recommended Matches," sorting through messages that range between offensive and graphic to mildly appealing, corresponding with new possibilities, and organizing first dates... well, clearly she is never tried online dating. (Try it, Susan! I met some awesome guys on OKCupid.)
If you're too drunk to talk, then you might be incapable of saying no or warding off unwanted advances. And then it is all on you." I'm going to be heartfelt for a minute. When you have been sexually attacked while too drunk to consent, it isn't all on you. In fact, it is not at all on you. Telling women that they're liable for the offenses committed against them isn't just horrible guidance; it leads to a culture in which rape victims are discouraged from reporting their assaults and even victimized further by judgmental friends, authorities, and college administrators. A new study suggests that rapists actually target drunk women, possibly in part because their casualties won't be taken seriously by law enforcement. Girls aren't to blame for this predatory behaviour.
Until you find a spouse, I would counsel you invest your effort and energy at least 75 percent in looking for a partner and 25 percent in professional development." Um, is this even possible? Assuming these women are still working 40 hours per week to support themselves, she's advocating 120 hours a week be devoted to the husband hunt. Since online dating is off the table, you must spend a mean of 17 hours a day getting her suggestions for guy-hunting into practice. That means, per Patton, you should be frequenting your local house of worship for like-minded worshippers, harassing friends to set you up with single acquaintances, and e-mailing old college classmates to see if they're successful and marriage-worthy yet. Don't stress, this leaves you 8 hours of free time for the week. I suggest you spend them sleeping, but you could also choose to spend them pursuing hobbies, including pickling and needlework, that may make you more desired as a wife.
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