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An online profile is just a gauge, and perhaps not even a great one at that. I was on a dating site again recently but recognized rather quickly I was squandering my time, and still not over my last relationship. I'm just done. It's difficult though once you have been burned to not be excessively skeptical or judgemental. You don't want to start off with a negative mindet that every man is lying until he proves you wrong, but you do desire to be alert and self-aware. The worst thing you could do if you already have self esteem and relationship dilemmas will be to foray into online dating. AWFUL IDEA. I learned the hard way.

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