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You might think online dating would create some much-needed equity" between the genders. In the realm of hetero courtship, convention still rules supreme. The Internet could be the great democratizer, the superb playing field-leveler. After all, we each have only the 500-word text boxes and crappy jpegs and clever (not too clever) user names to show for ourselves. Anyone can message anyone about anything. Maybe in this environment where we are safely sequestered behind displays, we can get past a number of the lingering sex-established rules" that dominate the How to Catch a Man" playbooks of yore. Perhaps instead we can learn to handle each other as equal players of an extremely silly game that we all secretly take quite seriously. Would not that be fine?

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But it appears quite clear to me that we are not there yet. I'm partially to blame, and also you probably are too. I am a feminist, sex-positive 21st century woman whose photographs include me posing in a Rosie the Riveter Halloween costume. I write about gender on the Internet for crying out loud! But every day, when I log into the dating site of my choice, I play the passive role, the receiver of attention, the awaiter of messages. I proceed to my inbox and see who needs to talk to me and then I choose to whom I Will respond. Sometimes I send a thanks but no thanks" to especially pleasant messages, but generally I am so overwhelmed by the brand new things to read and the brand new picks in front of me that I ignore those nice guys too. Basically, I behave like an entitled jerk who can pull puppet strings and make OkCupid dancing for me however I please.

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This really isn't the behaviour I would expect of a feminist, sex-positive 21st century woman. It is not behavior I am especially proud of either. Why do not I write messages first? Why don't I reach out to the guys with the humorous handles and great taste in books, the ones who post pictures with goofy faces and like tacos almost as much as I like tacos? Why do I not respond politely to every message, even the ones I'm not interested in? Why do I switch between playing the damsel as well as the playing the demanding entitled ahole? Because it is only so simple.

Ugh. I am embarrassed to have written that. I wish the evidence pointed to something different, something egalitarian and modern, but when I get real with my own online dating M.., it is the truth. I have sent messages to guys before, certainly, but the ratio is small. Ten to one? Twenty to one? Once in a blue moon? I really don't have to, and so I do not make myself go through the scary exercise of asking for thought and maybe being rejected or dismissed. Why would I put myself through the rollercoaster of the drafting, the editing, the sending, the waiting, the trusting, the checking account, and the sighing in disappointment when the fact of my sex (and let's be real; that's actually all it is) means the attention comes to me? This really isn't how I want this work, but I condone it with my inaction.

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