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I finished setting up my profile, used a photograph of my buddy for the profile pic with her permission, and said I was interested in Long term dating/short term dating and was good to really go. I thought I'd check on it in about 24 hours. But before I might even shut the tablature another message was received. It was another man who appeared nice asking how I was doing and I messaged him back remaining as unbiased and as uninterested as possible without being mean. I was going to leave again, but I was kind of curious now, so I waited another minute, and sure enough, a third message popped up (also I believe it is a good point to say that my buddy would be the first to say she is a pretty typical looking girl). I messaged him back, but before I really could send, I had gotten a response from the very first guy, so I needed to do that, then a answer from the next guy. So good, folks are interested in going out with me. Then I got another message that started with a line that while not totally vulgar, kind of came off a little odd. I dismissed it and went back to send the message to man three now. Before I really could send it, I got a followup message from Mr.4 which was needlessly sexual in nature. I continued to ignore him and completed. Then I started to have some small talk with some men (recall this is like minute 20 of having the profile up) and all the dialogues kind of get bizarre. Among the men becomes super aggressive saying he's competitive and he will treat me right, the other is asking for my phone number telling me he's lying in bed and the dialog (without me steering it) is turning increasingly sexual in nature though I tell him I'm not comfortable with it. Afterward I got the NoStringsAtttached messages, with multiple men sending me messages asking me to see them cam, or meeting up with them within the hour, or discuss with them on the phone or cyber. I'd say no and they normally did not take it too well.
At first I believed it was fun, I thought it was odd but maybe I'd mess with them or something and freak them out and tell them I was a guy or something, but as increasingly more messages came (either answers or new ones I 'd about 10 different men message me within 2 hours) the nature of them continued to get increasingly more irritating. Men were full on spamming my inbox with numerous messages before I really could answer to even one asking why I was not responding and what was wrong. Men would become hostile when I told them I wasn't interested in NSA sex, or men that had started regular and nice fast turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature. Seemingly nice dudes in rather esteemed livelihood requesting to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I did not want to.
"I came away believing that women have it so much harder than men do as it pertains to that kind of stuff," OKCThrowaway22221 writes, wrapping up his encounter. Backpage Escorts Near Me Peace Grove Alberta. Again, he hardly made it two fucking hours. A guy who was likely used to "boys being boys"(or guys being dudes or whatever), couldn't handle the type of messages that women get on a daily and even hourly basis. That's food for thought about the women who have been out there, dating on the internet for months or even years. If this is what he endured during a brief two-hour session---well, only envision.
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