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Advanced-level daters could be particularly impatient to reach the point of make out or move on"; if my experience is any indicator, even novices can date their manner to Taylorized proto-flirtation in about fourteen days, thanks to online dating's streamlined efficiency. (And in case you are on a date through OkCupid's new Crazy Blind Date" app---which Jezebel's Katie J.M. Baker lately called the Worst Idea Ever"---then the pressure to perform is compounded by your date grading your performance online in kudos"; OkCupid says users who give and receive more kudos will be looked upon more favorably by the app's algorithms.)

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In the case of overwhelming mutual interest, maybe the implied plan of a date is exciting. Personally, if I am aware that I'm supposed to figure out ASAP whether I find someone attractive, the conclusion becomes that much more difficult. (Whether interest needs to be something which needs to be discovered, rather than experienced clearly, is a whole different issue.) Perfection in a partner is something we grow into, something we create together over time---not something we can see in a profile, and not something we can comprehend over the first drink. Certainly calling dating" what it is may be more efficient than stumbling blindly through sexually anxious friendships, and online dating is probably a more efficient means of finding prospective dates; I do recognize that there's something to be said for efficacy. The trouble is that I actually don't know if I need my love life to be efficient. In fact, I am fairly certain I don't.

Times have definitely changed. Today, millions of people worldwide post personal ads on the Net for anyone and everyone to see. Obviously, these days we don't call them personal ads; instead they have hotter, intuitive names involving words like Match" and Harmony." And, as there is no price to using more words, oftentimes instead of keeping these bills as brief as possible we load them up with several coffee dates worth of tips, numerous headshots, and, for some, even a couple of intimate" photographs. No longer is the public action of seeking love, a relationship, or sex considered embarrassing or shameful. To digital natives (individuals whose lives have consistently comprised computers and the Internet), creating private profiles for social media, dating sites, and adult friend finder" programs is as natural as breathing. For digital immigrants (Gen X, Baby Boomers, and everyone else who learned to type on a typewriter), the procedure might be a little less intuitive, but it has still become an okay, engaging, and effective way to meet that someone you desire in your own life forever... or at least for an hour or two.

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I was married for 27 years, and I thought it was forever, but soon after our youngest child went off to college my husband left me for another - read younger - girl. Initially I was devastated by his activities and thought my destiny was to end up alone wearing lots of black, but over time I came to see this could be a chance to begin a fresh life. At first I sought out friends to fix me up with anyone they believed I might like, but few of them knew any single men and the guys I did meet that way left me feeling more and more grateful to be single. I began going to church again and I joined a hiking club, in secret hoping to meet a guy in one of those venues. And I did meet several guys in this manner, however they were already married, too young, or uninteresting to me. Eventually my oldest daughter came over and gave me a tutorial on Internet dating. Initially I was resistant, but she insisted. Over the course of a month or two, as I become more comfortable with the notion, I went out on several dates with three different guys. All of them were pleasant, but not one of them was Mr. Right. Subsequently online man number four came along. His name is Paul, we've got a lot in common, and there's certainly a flicker. We are taking it slow and steady because we are both a bit cautious; as it turns out, we were both dumped by our spouses the first time around. Nevertheless, we're planning to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas together, and I'm hoping to use those holidays to introduce my children Paul and to meet his kids as well. A few days ago I even sent my daughter a thank you note for her not so gentle push in the proper direction.

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Be (more or less) honest. In the event you are 50, don't attempt to pass yourself off as 35-perhaps 46, but not 35. In the event that you post a picture, utilize a recent one that actually looks like you. And for goodness sake don't say you're looking for a relationship if all you want is sex! Prospective partners/lovers/whatever will find out what you truly look like and what you actually desire soon enough. Being true up front about who you are and what you're interested in will save you (and other people) lots of time and possible heartache.

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