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I read a study that says women are somewhat more picky than men. They fall for the bad boys and believe they are able to alter them for the better. In the end, they get their hearts broken because they did not alter. Again, studies has established that dating bad boy's never ever work out. By the time they get older and wiser and go following the nice guy that they blew off. They nice guys end up blow them off. Or is taken. So in the end. To me, both genders need to relax and quit playing the games and act like mature adults if they're any more left out there
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