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As far as attractive women not reacting to messages - the anonymity of the computer keyboard and screen have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would've only become the guy in the corner of the bar staring, the guy at random bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys just sitting at home, in their own cellar, peeling wings off flies or whatever. However, the web and online dating have bridged "desire" and "actions" so that with almost zero effort, lots of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can drop their garbage everywhere without the effects they'd face trying to do it in person. So I do think that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they need to sift through, plus it drowns the more nobly-purposed efforts.
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The extreme degree of male societal weakness and female power in online dating is actually contributing to a widespread, toxic degree of animosity against women through the society. I'm sorry to say but this animosity is well deserved. Never before have so many guys had to come to face to face with the sheer hypocrisy and wholly unreasonable nature of our female-imposed courtship rite. It's certainly changed how I think about women. I'm also finding that I 've far less tolerance for the lop-sided nature of male-female interactions. MGTOW is starting to make plenty of sense. Backpage escorts nearby Alberta. This is not challenging or unjust, it's many magnitudes beyond what could be considered slightly realistic. It's terrible. It's funny because online dating is probably going to ruin feminism. These are the experiences guys have which color their interpretation of public debate. Women whining and moaning about "equality" given this set of social standards is truly hideous and impossible to take seriously.