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Should it truly take 5 dates for you to find out that things should finish since you haven't had sex in 8 years and do not plan on having any in the next 8? (True story) Then there was the one where we had brunch in a really nice restaurant, then played a couple of rounds of mini-golf, then went for a walk at a local park. She looked like she was really enjoying my company. As I dropped her off at her location, she gave me a hug, got out of the car, simply to turn around and say that she was going to take a break from dating. So why did she exchange several lengthy messages and go out with me? I'll give her credit to tell me in person, as opposed to a followup email, but I was simply dumbfounded. You'd to be there.
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