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For instance, put images of yourself in a suit appearing 'corporate' and standing next to your new sports car and you'll set off the spidey awareness of every gold digger in sight. At the same time as putting off young fun loving girls that think you look like a loaded old douche who is trying to 'buy' them. Place graphics that flaunt your abs and muscles and also you put off girls that think you're a poser and girls that consider that you're just after sex. Put some of neutral, drilling non-threatening images of you standing next to your Xmas tree holding your pet dog and you also look like a 'dreary guy.' Put quite zany ones where you share dangling upside down off something high or in fancy dress, and you also seem as a fanatic. You will Scare off the meek sheltered girls and bring the S & M freaks that want you to butt fuck them while they shout 'no daddy it is too big' at the top of their lungs, prompting your neighbors to alarm the authorities.
Once they fire back, scan through their profile get a handle on their values and character quirks and reveal them back to her in conversation. This is actually about the sole thing that is EASIER online than in real life since you do not even have to ask leading question to illicit the information; it's all already there. And that's because most women nowadays are narcissists prone to massively OVER-SHARING on social media (including dating site profiles).The pattern for exactly what you have to say and do to get her to participate you is generally right there in her profile preferences and bio.
Arrange a date. On the date steer conversation away from the nuts and bolts 'what do you do what do I do' job interview dynamic and onto the grounds of primal fears, childhood memories and general observations about people around you. Sprinkle the conversation with subtle references and nods to all the shit she already told the universe floats her boat in her long rambling self-indulgent profile. Direct the conversation the long way round until it's about sex one and sexual preferences one way or another. Then get her back to yours, fuck the shit out of her and only call her back the next day if she's any good.
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Another experience I 'd comes to mind: I answered this one girl's personal ad in this community paper. On the 2nd time she came over to my place, we began having sex. She was also seeing this one chap, who was going to her community events often, but didn't start having sex with him until much later. Eventually she asked me if I needed to get serious with her. I politely declined, so she pursued things with the other guy. They soon married, and her wedding announcement read, With XXX and me, it was love at first sight". When I see that someone is willing to shamelessly lie to others and themselves, not getting serious with her was the right thing to do. And why men are frequently so skeptical about women.
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