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One more thing. Backpage Escorts near me Beach Corner. I'd like to ask all of my middleaged online dating male and female compatriots a favor. Please, let's rid our profiles of these overused phrases once and for all: glass-half-full, lusty, play-free, and easygoing. And these, let us omit these also: "I look 10 years younger than I am," "I hate talking about myself, but..." and all derivatives of "my friends/mom/ex/children tell me that..I'm a glass-half-total optimist, who's easy going and looks 10 years younger than I am." I think that if we can all agree to clean up our profiles then maybe, just maybe, we can locate some common ground and get back to the business of falling in love (or at least having fun trying).

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I feel like I am aging out" of online dating. I've discovered after my last birthday (I turned 54 in June) that the reply I get on has dropped to virtually nothing. It is as though moving from the early 50s to the mid 50s is some form of death-knell for a dating life. I initiate contact with guys in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself. The possible matches that the website sends me are age appropriate for me, but when I look at the age-range that those guys want, (generally 35-50) I regularly move past them, understanding I can't compete with women in their desired range, even though many of those guys are as much as 5-8 years older than me! In other words, knowingly sends me matches which are probably not realistic for me to pursue. When I have emailed a number of those guys, I never hear back. I'm guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further. Even if I'm within their desired range, I still do not get much of a response. I assume the reason behind this is they can get younger women to react to them, so why would they go for me when they have a chance with the 45 year old model of me? If their first wife was their age, like a college love or whatever, they likely feel entitled to a newer version, so to speak. Our culture encourages this. It's frustrating, as well as depressing and more than a little humiliating. It's the builtin folly of on-line websites: you are merely defined by your actual age, in bold type right next to your user name.

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I get what you are saying. When my marriage fell apart a year ago people attempted to assure me that I was a catch. And I still thing I should be - am tall, clean-cut, seem young for 48, run my own successful company, know the way to dance, am a community leader with environmental education and in my profession, lecture at university, write, from an exotic place (Alaska). As a result I'm very busy so online dating looked like the solution. But in fact in six I can count on one hand the number of women who've written back and no genuine dates. Backpage Escorts Near Me Beacon Corner Alberta. I decided women in my own date range and attractiveness range. Merely to check I wrote to rather older women and not as appealing than myself. Nothing. Got on Tinder and swiped practically every woman. Tried all kinds of images. Nothing. while I talk to my female friends they say they're inundated. The sole dates I have had, 2, were from old buddies who both told me they'd been fantasising about me for years but then they left it at that and seldom return my calls. At Meetups women appear interested however they don't respond. Simply do not recognize this, it is as if they expect me to pursue them and I 'm loath to do that because the two times I did that when my marriage was souring permanently alienated good friends. Really out to sea on all this - so much has changed since I was last dating 26 years past.

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Kathleen, I am an old man and most women on line in my age group make out they aren't interested in the younger men. But of course they are. It's merely that all the younger guys approaching elderly women are mainly, looking for what they consider to be the quickest way to get easy sex. They only reveal interest in men their own age when the supply of younger men dries up, or the men begin to lose interest in them. It's insulting to me. And that's the reason why I'm not interested in the women, my age who approach me. Backpage Escorts near Beach Corner Alberta.

Men over 45 do have more options regarding dating. But there are certain ways around this. First, a girl has to expressly state what she offers a man (that he desires) in the context of dating and relationships. I have read tens of thousands of female profiles (35-55 years old) and practically not one of them actually say what they offer a guy. Typically, itis a record of demands and preferences. This really is not good marketing. A lady should have the ability to answer the question What do I offer a man he desires?" If she doesn't understand, (or is offended by the question) she is not prepared for dating.

Debby, you're talking rot as far as I am concerned. I'm 62 and let me tell you, I Have had nights" with women 20-30 years younger and they do not even ask what I do for a job. Sure the long term prospects aren't great with a considerably younger woman. But in my experience a whole lot of much younger women go for me. They say I'm a silver fox and handsome lol - Sorry, but as much as youwant to consider it's all about a cynical money grab, I have to tell you we old guys, like some mature women attract the opposite sex. Regrettably, many people don't attract the opposite sex. nature is cruel.

I 've exactly the same observation. Andrew. For awhile I was amazed at women's profiles with their shopping list of demands (do not contact me if...you must be blah blah blah....""with no statement of what they have to offer. Certainly a guy can collect much about a woman from reading her profile, and women are often so inundated with answers from poor matches they become exasperated and start to set bounds; yet for me this language implies an attitude of entitlement and self absorption, and indicates maybe an assumption that she is the more desirable one in the deal. Perhaps women are accustomed to being pursued. A more sensible mature girl will understand that relationships are not just about her and her needs. Certainly guys can frequently act the same style, only wanting sex. I consider the more profound truth is the fact that most people only blunder automatically into relationships, compelled by their poorly comprehended desires, understanding neither themselves or what they want from a connection.

The funny thing is both me and my present bf ONLY dated younger for the most part when online dating. He said it was vanity on his part and I told him I did it'cause I could (get away with it). But asI've stated numerous times on this particular site, I also was just capable to date younger (my normal taste except for my present same-age bf) cause I lied about my age. Shaved off quite several years too girls! lol I was born in 1953, but wouldput 1960 or1961 on my profile. What helped is I have a killer figure (slim, but curves, 36D) and pretty face thanks to years of intermittant plastic surgery (but nothing below the waist til recently (coolsculpting which I recommend). Myplastic surgeon's nurse says I endeavor youthfulness and look, on a good day, in my 40s still. So, I've had a clear edge. I suppose I'm one of the fortunate ones, but I think that it's a combo of my style, a form of God glow"/spiritualityand seems. Men have ever been brought to me in person. Big time. Sometimes it was flattering and sometimes a problem frankly.

I've decided if my bf and I break up (God FORBID as I am very in love with him) I won't return to online dating but will give celibacy a shot. Relationship after, say, 58 or 59 is NOT worth the attempt imo. Maybe 'cause finally you're stuck with all these bitter, old, paranoid,hypocritical boomer men. I do not know....Am acceptable with my isolation now. Crave it actually (bf and I 've a long distance relationship but just 72 miles). Backpage escorts near me Beach Corner. We are merely apart about 4 nights before reunited though. And intend to reside together sooner or later in the foreseeable future. So my dating experience can be best summed up by the old standard Just in Time". Backpage Escorts Near Me Bay Tree Alberta. Listen to the Streisand version circa 1965.